A question I hear a lot from women goes something like this:
I’m single and dating. I want pleasure, play, adventure, exploration. I want deep intimacy with a partner, but my “person” isn’t here yet. How do I keep my tender heart safe, secure, open while dating and having fun? How can I have deep intimacy while not having my heart broken again and again? And more so, how can I attract HEALTHY partners and relationships that allow for deep intimacy AND fun/exploration?
First of all, this is the most beautifully human of all questions. Single, dating, partnered, married, this is the kind of question we should all be asking. How do I keep my heart open despite it being consistently broken open on a daily basis?
Well my loves, it’s a dance. Here are a few things to consider:
1) Emotional Alchemy. Often, sexual trauma or conditioning can reside in the heart. Emotional trauma and heartbreak can reside in the sexual organs. It’s essential to be attuning to these energy centers and allowing life force to flow through them. We run into problems when the energy stagnates. Emotions aren’t the problem, resistance is.
2) Resourcing Within. To allow deepening love, safety, intimacy with another, it’s essential to create those conditions within. If we haven’t created the right conditions for intimacy with self, or self love, it can be difficult to access it with another human. This isn’t always the case. However, finding those inwards sources of love, pleasure, connection with yourself can create a vibratory frequency that attracts that experience with a partner. It can also attract a partner who can meet you at the level you’re on, instead of someone who may need to be “saved”.
3) Sexual Sovereignty. This is similar to Resourcing Within, but specifically sexually. Take ownership of your own sexual force, our own pleasure, orgasm, etc. We’re conditioned to believe that we’re not whole and complete without someone beside us. This belief leads to a consistent feeling of lack and not-enoughness. Instead, taking responsibility for your own sexual energy allows union to come from a state of wholeness. This allows partnership to move into next level magic making blissssss. Even in partnership, it’s incredibly powerful to clear your lover from your field regularly in order to increase polarity/passion in your union.
4) Aligning Sex, Love, and Spirit. We’re often taught to unconsciously split off sex from love or sex from spirit. We may not even know we’re doing it. We may feel undeserving of all three. We may believe we must sacrifice sex to have love, or spirit to have sex. The truth is, we were born to have it all. Claim the desire for it. Attune to these different centers. Discover where they are out of alignment. Let them have conversations, rituals, practices to reunite.
5) Magnetism. Cultivating sexual energy, aligning with love and spirit, makes you a magnet for right partnership. It draws a soul mate to you. Searching isn’t necessary. You’re soaking in the beauty and truth of your soul, broadcasting that signal out in all directions. Better than any dating app around.
In Yoni Egg Pleasure Priestess, we do all this and more. Whether you are single and dating, single and not looking, partnered, married for 50 years, these practices will benefit you.
You’ll deepen your relationship to yourself, which deepens your relationship to the other. You’ll move emotional stagnation, allowing an opening to the love that’s ever present in your life. You’ll source love, pleasure, beauty from with, allowing an abundance of it all in your current relationships. You’ll align sex, heart, and spirit. You’ll become a magnet for love, beauty, pleasure, and life.
This course weaves pre-recorded practices to do on your own timing, as well as live experiences.
The Welcome module is open to you as soon as you register, and is full of juicy practices and ritual to get you started.
Our full journey begins on September 2nd!
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